To give or not to give..........That is the question

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I don't have any kids myself, but I work with kids everyday and have several younger cousins as well as some friends that have kids. If I found myself in that situation, I'd probably explain the benefits of both choices and then let the kid decide what they wanted to do. Some kids take competition very seriously and might be upset if you don't show the same dedication to something that they find very important. On the other hand a lot of kids just want to have fun and tend to be fairly generous. That's why I would let the kid decide.

Just my two cents.
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