05-08-2006, 05:01 AM
who'd of thunk it? fisherman beeing touchy feely kind of people. funny how we dont get portraid that way ... LOL must be the mocho man immage we put out... LOL
there is no wonder that they say a day of fishing will add a day to your life.
with out a doubt it is easy to get pulled in to lifes pitfalls especialy when you know it is wrong yet you are afraid of loosing something or someone that you hold of value in your life.
learning to let go is with out a doubt the hardest part. once you have truly let go all else will subside. The hard part is knowing the differance between real love and a chemical attraction wich can last for years between.
creating a healthy bond between two people can only be accomplished by those who are willing to allow thier relationship to mature. Yes there will always be chemical attractions with out side parties, these attractions are much the same as anger, you choose weather or not react to it. They are both as natural as rain.
that is what sets up above the fishes, we can choose when how and to whom we will act and react to with what ever fealings we are dealing with.
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it is important to have that alone time to unwind, work things out, let the worms that are eating at you get flung one by one in to the water for the fish to feed upon. {fishermans fillosophy}
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a realtionship baised on obsession is not only unhealthy for both of you but can result in harmfull if not deadly conciquence.
for those of us who cant find the answers on our own there are many books that deal with this. Just remember it is not a one way street, it is bypartissin, meaning that if both parties are not on the same game plan then it dosnt work. all the books, all the freinds with socalled answers and all the therophy in the world wont make a bit of differance in a failing relationship.
baisicaly what it all comes down to is we all have baisicly the same wants and needs. what sets us apart is our values. here is where the first deceptions begin and this where faild marrages root from. [#bf0000]By not beeing honest about our values from day one with each other set the train reck in motion.[/#bf0000]
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there is no wonder that they say a day of fishing will add a day to your life.
with out a doubt it is easy to get pulled in to lifes pitfalls especialy when you know it is wrong yet you are afraid of loosing something or someone that you hold of value in your life.
learning to let go is with out a doubt the hardest part. once you have truly let go all else will subside. The hard part is knowing the differance between real love and a chemical attraction wich can last for years between.
creating a healthy bond between two people can only be accomplished by those who are willing to allow thier relationship to mature. Yes there will always be chemical attractions with out side parties, these attractions are much the same as anger, you choose weather or not react to it. They are both as natural as rain.
that is what sets up above the fishes, we can choose when how and to whom we will act and react to with what ever fealings we are dealing with.
this is why [indent]
it is important to have that alone time to unwind, work things out, let the worms that are eating at you get flung one by one in to the water for the fish to feed upon. {fishermans fillosophy}
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a realtionship baised on obsession is not only unhealthy for both of you but can result in harmfull if not deadly conciquence.
for those of us who cant find the answers on our own there are many books that deal with this. Just remember it is not a one way street, it is bypartissin, meaning that if both parties are not on the same game plan then it dosnt work. all the books, all the freinds with socalled answers and all the therophy in the world wont make a bit of differance in a failing relationship.
baisicaly what it all comes down to is we all have baisicly the same wants and needs. what sets us apart is our values. here is where the first deceptions begin and this where faild marrages root from. [#bf0000]By not beeing honest about our values from day one with each other set the train reck in motion.[/#bf0000]
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